My son went to Bama he was not Greek. No issues. He said he never saw any issues with lgbtq. Kids go to class. Sports. Party. Like any school. I think it’s a 4.5 on campus pride index of 5 - you should sign up to access that database.
Parents have been on here saying kids have a great experience there. Non parents will show u a list that says it’s not a good school for lgbtq. Ask to speak to a student ambassador - have your daughter call. I see @DramaMama2021 suggested too. Do for all schools of interest.
UMN I’m guessing u get $15k. Do the NPC. It’ll tell you. Great school. So will be $40k ish. Almost a safety.
Arizona won’t be affordable A 3.7 is 12.5 off. Great school and easy admit. A 3.75 uw is $20k off so closer.
Iowa - yes admit. Should work. But KU a better choice imho. Cheaper. Strong honors.
FSU a reach but less so than UF. Yes good on costs. And if you don’t get the OOS waiver and you go abroad the first year, you get in state. Note Engineerimg is off site, shared with FAMU.