I would move Northeastern, BC, and Tulane to reach. Unless you ED Tulane, it’s not easy - and Northeastern is brutal getting in. There are kids getting into Ivy getting turned down there.
While being LGBTQ is a part of you and you want to explore it in your essay, I can promise you admissions gets a million related to the topic - so hopefully angle of comparing it to an acting performance stands out as unique. My guess is, it doesn’t - but I’m not you or LGBTQ so I do not know. I’m simply saying , if it’s an over written about subject, it won’t stand out.