What can/will your parents pay for college per year? I agree you have to run the NPCs with your parents, I do not recommend you run the MyIntution calculator linked above as it less accurate, because it requires much less financial data.
Most colleges have NPCs. Here are Columbia’s and Barnard’s:
https://npc.collegeboard.org/app/columbia
https://npc.collegeboard.org/app/barnard
If a college looks affordable per the NPC, and it is your first choice, consider applying ED. NPCs may not be accurate if your parents are divorced, own a business, or own real estate beyond a primary home…are any of these these the case for you?
How and why will being Bangladeshi stand out? If OP answers the demographic questions they would likely choose Asian as their race.