In many ways it’s all moot. We don’t know if the OP will qualify for need aid but at 150k it won’t be a ton.
She likes ASU and wants to live home to save money so short of a full ride like the Johnson at W&L or the full ride at SMU or others she’s not going for that cheap. So she should apply apply to schools that offer at least full tuition, even if a wing and a prayer like Vandy or WUSTL bcuz the at home statement to save sort of puts OP into a corner.