Sigh
Arguably your school has the best college counseling office in the nation, with all sorts of data on past applicants. They are well-versed on guiding students to build an appropriate college list. These resources can answer your questions better than anonymous people on the Internet, even if any of these people has experience with your school.
The other advantage of your college counseling office is that they would tell you, correctly, that your life is not doomed if you “only” take AP Calc AB. You ask opinions on anonymous websites and you run the risk of getting totally asinine answers.
I’ll also add, and this is premature since you don’t have acceptances yet, but you might want to consider the logistics of ROTC in your decision making. While Yale and Princeton have ROTC on campus, Harvard students travel to MIT.
Good luck