Talk to your private school counselors.
I know others mentioned budget. If you don’t qualify for aid, some of these are $400K.
No one can say - but since you’re applying to 80 schools it seems 
and wait til you see the essays so all Ivies plus all top 20 is like top 20….but I’d say
Yes to your safeties. Yes to UW.
Unlikely for UIUC and most UCs because your SAT won’t matter. I would add an ASU/Arizona, Colorado, Minnesota, Ohio State, RPIs strong likelies - strong because they are great schools. And if you want a name that over delivers but is small and rural - Rose-Hulman. It’s the #1 school for engineering without PhDs - and packs a career outcome delivering wallop.
Good luck.