I second - or is it 3rd? - the recommendation to run the NPC. For example, my GS is at University of Massachusetts, Amherst out-of-state. His stats were not quite as good as yours, but they and his family was full pay, but they gave him enough in scholarship money to bring the cost into the range you’re looking for. UConn, SUNY Binghamton, and SUNY Buffalo are others in the Northeast that are currently treating out of state applications very favorably.