Women in aeronautical engineering - or any kind of engineering - are rare. I expect that you will be in demand. You have a great list of schools and excellent suggestions from this forum. My advice is to cast your net wide, apply to a lot of schools. This will enable you to see where you get the best financial packages and possibly even negotiate a better deal by using your best offer to convince your favorite school to give you more money.
Best of luck with the process.