I think you have estimated your chances well thus far. I believe that you have a good chance at BU, BC, and ND. If you were to add in Ivies, I’d recommend considering Cornell and Dartmouth. You could also look into Penn, Columbia, and Brown. I don’t think you have a chance at Harvard, Yale, and Princeton.
Have you considered Barnard? I’d also recommend looking at Rice, Wash U, Vanderbilt, Tufts (but remember to show HUGE interest in Tufts if you apply there - otherwise, they may reject you, because they want high yield).
Are you willing to consider LACs? Some of them have good anthro dep’ts.