With Loyola and Tulane right next door to each other, there’s a pretty good-sized student community right there, but it’s true that Loyola is smaller. Loyola Maryland is similar in size to Providence, so maybe she wants bigger than that.
Yes, “4.4UW” for UMD doesn’t sound right. That has got to be a weighted number. Even so, it would be a reach OOS with a 4.0W. Have you considered U of Delaware? That might be a better fit (and similar in vibe to other schools she likes, IMO), and it has some great programs for her interests. More suburban than urban, but that’s equally true of UMD. The two are less than an hour apart, so still pretty close to family.