Thank you for the supportive words.
My budget is not too high. My parents say they will stretch and afford tuition for a UC/Cal state but they are concerned about my success.
I need a supportive environment in terms of my disability.
Answers to all your questions:
Classes in high school: AP Psychology, AP statistics(current as a senior), French 2 years, Advanced Choir, Film as literature (current)
Officer at schools Psychology club
Location: Prefer California- close to home
Want to minor in Music and wish to make a career in mental health counselling. I am a natural healer 
and enlightened with my own experiences. I looked up at saint Mary’s and it seems good in terms of disability support, size, majors but the tuition is so high, I don’t think I can afford it. So please guide me