Can you be more specific please regarding what your budget is? This makes a huge difference in college selection, so it’s important to know.
A lot of private colleges will cost $80k/year without aid. Are you eligible for aid? (You can check via the net price calculator at some of these colleges). If not eligible, is your family able and willing to pay $320k without incurring an unreasonable financial burden? Have you had this conversation with your parents?
All these are key questions to answer before narrowing down a college list.