Notre Dame - high/mid match
Boston College - match
Georgetown - low reach
Dartmouth - reach
Northwestern - low reach
NYU - low match (unless Stern, then high/mid match)
Your ACT’s are above average, your SAT 2 is fairly good, and your strong dedication to sports should compensate for the lack of other EC’s. The Best Buddies work is really good though, as long as you played it up well on the app.