Based on the info you’ve provided, below are my guesses as to what your chances for admission might be at the schools on your list. I will yield to @gumbymom and @ucbalumnus as to your chances for UC San Diego and San Jose State. Are all of these schools within budget for your family?
Extremely Likely (80-99+%)
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Arizona State (if you meet the requirements, it’s assured)
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NJIT
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Rutgers-New Brunswick (but if admissions for engineering is separate, then I’d move it to a likely)
Likely (60-79%)
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Binghamton
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Stevens
Toss-Up (40-59%)
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U. of Maryland
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Virginia Tech
Lower Probability (20-39%)
- Purdue
Low Probability (less than 20%)
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NYU
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UMich
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U. of Washington
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Carnegie Mellon
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UIUC
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Cornell
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UC Berkeley
I categorized Purdue the way I did because of the CoE admission info, kindly provided by @momofboiler1 .