Miami of Ohio would be a good target. Lots of merit money not sure about how they do for need based money on top of merit, but worth looking into.
There are schools that will meet 100% of need and your first generation hook could help you are well.
I would respectfully suggest you move off the prestige type schools you are primarily focused on and do some research and find school who will either give you huge merit awards, or schools that will meet 100% of need.