Are you in-state for either UVA or UNC? If not, OOS is the guts of $70K a year and UNC is ~$60K- why would you be ok with paying that to a public university but not a private?
So, after scanning your old threads it seems that UVa (EA) and W&M (ED) turned you down last year. Your four favorites of your acceptances were BU (1st choice but not sure about the $), CWRU (unaffordable), Lehigh (merit $, affordable) & Conn College (merit $, affordable).
You have given very few clues about what you want from your new school- the three you list imply that you want to be VA or NC, but you have two big state unis and a smaller semi-urban private. Are you looking for a different campus culture- and if so, what sort? are you looking to ‘trade up’ to a better name? do you want to be geographically closer to a particular place?
Remember that as a 1st year transfer your HS profile will be considered will be considered.
And last, but actually first: what can you afford?