Thank you! This is what I needed to hear. I wasn’t thinking about the advisors and dorm parents. There is a lot of talk on CC that only kids who are incredibly organized and 100% self-sufficient can make it in boarding school. My son is still in middle school, how could he be functioning like a college student already? He does his own laundry, can fix a simple meal, and gets good grades. It’s a process.
If the Army can’t fix a messy room, then I am certainly beating a very dead horse on that front.