Choosing ND over big scholarships at big publics

Make sure ND is affordable with belt tightening (ie., cutting on take out/restaurants - but not essentials, ie., fiing leaky roof).
If it is, then it sounds like ND is your favorite and it’s such a distinctive experience that if affordable and the right fit, it’s worth it.
But, if it’s not affordable, have no regrets: many flagships offer an excellent education.
What are your other choices?