How much are you willing and able to pay for college? As others have said, you can get some idea of what you will be expected to pay at various schools of interest. You won’t get much in financial aid, IMO, given your situation.
As an excellent student and very good test scores, your DD might get merit money. Is time to look at what schools give scholarships and where she would have a shot at getting some awards. Her chill might have some info in this regard. This forum has great resources as well.
The most important schools to have on the college list are affordable ones, that give your D the experiences and opportunities she seeks, that will mos likely take her. Once there are a few schools that fit in that category, one can start taking some chances on admissions and scholarships.
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