<p>A degree of nervousness SHOULD be there…I’ve seen a lot of basics run into issues with their peers and their cadre because they don’t take things seriously and get into trouble…nervousness is a sign of true understanding of the commitment and trials your son will go through.</p>
<p>Bad things will happen, and plenty of tough times ahead. But that is exactly what makes what your son is going to do so important and character-building in his life. A lot of life lessons have to be learned on that first day, in those 6 weeks, in that first year, and in all 4 years here…but that’s the reality of this place.</p>
<p>However, while it’s good to be a bit nervous and to be thinking about the sacrifices, trials, and lonely times ahead, he needs to think about the rewards, excitements, and good times too. I will never forget the feeling of finishing basic, of finishing recognition. I thought nothing would ever top that…and then I found myself jumping out of a plane at 4500 feet above the ground. I’ve found closer friends than I’ve ever had in my life, and have had some great times here doing everything from hiking to camping to swing dancing. </p>
<p>Good times are ahead too…the best advice is to enjoy what he has today, and then when it’s time to part with today, look forward to what tomorrow brings…both the good and the bad.</p>