I read the question aloud to my DD, who is hoping to be a member of the class of 2024. Before I could even say anything else, her first words were that this was probably not the right choice for OP. While on a visit at another LAC, a staff member of some sort said if students are looking for a place to blend in to the woodwork, a LAC is not the place for them to be.
I agree with gardenstategal that these schools need to build a community and every student is chosen for a reason because they don’t have the luxury of admitting students who want to be anonymous.