You will find both caring and not so caring professors at every college.
My kid took Ochem, and actually thought the instructor was fabulous. It was also THE hardest course she took in undergrad school…and she was an engineering major. YMMV.
But all of the colleges you listed are fine.
Since you are looking at a lot of public universities, you might want to consider the costs for out of state students at all where you are not a resident. If finances are not an issue, apply wherever. But do keep in mind that medical school (should you get there) will be $100,000 a year most likely. And it is funded with loans loans and more loans…or help from the bank of mom and dad.