Well, it sounds like you’re considered a VA resident for purposes of admissions and tuition, as long as you’re graduating from a VA high school and your parent has paid VA taxes for at least two years.
Virginia has a top-notch public university system. You may not be competitive for the very top programs, but there are a lot of very good options.
California publics do not count freshman grades (except for Cal Poly SLO), so you might want to run this calculator and see what your weighted-capped GPA for 10th and 11th grade only looks like https://rogerhub.com/gpa-calculator-uc/ There may be some possibilities there… but the OOS COA at UC’s is very expensive (65K+) and the CSU’s you could get into, while very good schools, are not necessarily better schools than the VA public U’s that you can also get into. At any rate, if you want to do the UC or CSU application, it’s due at the end of November.
Canadian U’s also don’t count freshman grades.
If you can full pay for a private university, then you may want to target schools that typically have high numbers of international students, and may be hurting for full-pay internationals under current conditions. This is a useful list - look in both the National Universities category and the Liberal Arts Colleges one. https://www.usnews.com/best-colleges/rankings/national-universities/most-international
If you can’t pay the full 70K+/year for these schools, then your best options will likely be in-state… but luckily you’re in a state with many great options.