<p>@mamabear1234, that is exactly where my D is right now. She has a couple D3 schools she really likes and the coaches seem to like her but none that she is ready to say is “the one”. So she is likely to lose any advantage being on a coach’s list would give her. But these are not NESCAC schools and are not the most competitive in her sport. And she has a range of schools that are in her sweet spot academically. So in the end, we are relatively confident she will get into a school that is a good academic fit and be able to play her sport. </p>
<p>OTOH, her friends who are going D1 or NESCAC have committed. But that was not a good route for my D.</p>