Sincerely thanks to all the commentators. @tsbna44, @murray93, @merc81, @gardenstategal
Due to a health issue, my D took a gap year. It began with a severe migraine and progressed into a complex of digestive failure and habitual vomits. As a result, the decision to take a gap year was unavoidable and was a must, significantly impacting her GPA.
This is why she had no alternative but to cast a wide net in her college applications. She applied to more than 30 schools, including her dream ones; with no consideration for size or location.
Regarding her writing, my daughter has been writing novels since 4th grade. She has won Scholastics for five years at the state level but has not received any national awards.
I considered her lack of national awards due to her circumstances. She attended a writing club in middle school only for months but has since worked independently, developing her unique writing style and voice. In the past, I viewed many of her Scholastics submissions as tragedies, unlike those of her peers.
Reflecting on her writing style and voice, I once advised her to derive valuable lessons from life experiences while collaborating with others, rather than solely from books or inspiration.
Last year, my daughter expressed her desire to pursue publication opportunities for her novels, most of which are more or less 150,000 words.
She is a night owl, creative and smart like an artsy kid, calling her need for time and space for her writing. And, she recognizes that Bard has wonderful authors and seminar-style lectures on its teaching students in class.
Below are my thoughts.
College learning is a cornerstone for one’s life journey. Rather than focusing solely on acquiring skills or techniques, I hope my kids will learn from experience, specifically through reflection on experience to fully embrace and maximize their college experience, fostering personal growth, discovering new insights, and achieving self-realization.
I see this concept in SLU’s “DISCOVER THE NORTH COUNTRY.” Similarly, I see the same principle in Bard’s “ALL FIRST-YEAR STUDENTS PARTICIPATE IN A COMMON CURRICULUM.”
The decision will be my D’s, not mine. I like to give her some credit for making a good decision. Thank you for sharing your advice and I deeply appreciate your consideration.