@happymomof1 I had no idea. Thanks for that. We have had the debate in the past but assumed parents had to co sign.
@thumper1 Thanks for remembering the story was familiar. Not sure how comforting it is to me that it is memorable. Cutting her off seems mean spirited. With her diagnosed issues and the fact that she has made forward progress, however slowly, asking her to take financial responsibility before being done with college didnt seem right.
@coolguy40 We absolutely need professional help but have been unable to find the right fit. It is a very complex situation. At this point, we could find someone just to listen to the two of us (husband and I). Wouldn’t help her. We are also at the point where we can’t make her go or get help and we know that.
This has been a long distressing process and it helps to get outside opinions. I take it for what it is, but CC members are people, too!
Thanks for weighing in everyone. It helps.