<p>So many things going on in this thread, where do I start. </p>
<p>I came from a family were most in my close family were divorced at least once. My mom is one her 3rd marriage been with him since I was 11 so that is 17 years roughly and that the longest she has been with anyone. </p>
<p>I met my husband when I was 18 1/2. Married when I was 21. We both do not believe in getting divorces. We believe to make a marriage really work you have to work during the hard times. And yes we have had hard times in our relationship. Yes there have been a few times where i wanted to walk, and a few times I did, but in the end we worked through the issues we had and we have been together 10 years and been married 8.</p>