<p>I like the idea of talking about specific programs at each of the schools he’s considering. Do any of them have good programs for things he might be very interested in such as unique internships, mentoring, research opportunities, study abroad programs, career services & future alumni networks, etc?</p>
<p>Research more details about those things for a realistic discussion about what he’d be giving up with any decision he makes, just like you normally would. Just make sure you’re really making sure he’s taking it all in. If the girl’s family moved to the other side of the world next week, which college would he really want to attend most? If his answer changes from the college she’s planning to attend, he’s obviously not making his choice based on the one that he really wants. </p>
<p>Don’t call her parents, that just adds more unnecessary drama to the mix. Since she only got accepted to that one college, she’s going there no matter what. If you can’t get him to make a choice that’s not based solely on GF, her parents certainly can’t either. If that’s the choice he makes, just be supportive and help him maximize his college experience and opportunities as much as possible.</p>