<p>Ah, Shawbridge, now you’re just bragging, LOL, not that I blame you. My daughter was/is a size 0/2 fashionista (won’t do TJMaxx) but at only 5’2" it’s not so impressive.</p>
<p>DD was never in a really Jewish environment until college. She also took several religion classes. We are seriously non-observant, but she was pleasantly surprised to discover that she liked Judaism more than the other religions.</p>
<p>Her real introduction to Jewish life came from all the semi-Orthodox boys who pursued her because of her pre-Raphaelite hair. They could tell she was one of the tribe. After being called a “Jew-tease” (I kid you not) because they were so disappointed to discover that she is non-observant, she started wearing mini-skirts to openly communicate her position.</p>
<p>Now she has a boyfriend with one Jewish grandparent, three southern Waspy grandparents, and a very Jewish name. Hers isn’t.</p>
<p>All that said, she could not escape from Barnard/Columbia without an immersion in Jewish life even if she wasn’t looking for it.</p>
<p>What is the point of this post? At urban northeast schools the sheer volume of Jewish life will be very palpable even if the student never attends any Jewish themed evens.</p>
<p>I must say my S, who attends a school very similar to Shawson, hasn’t had much to do with Jewish life, but he has attended Shabbat dinner on many occasions. He says his non-Jewish friends go too. The Jewish studies/Hillel building is gorgeous and right across from the Admissions Office. In fact, they did info sessions there. S said that having to get tallit fringe on his face to find a seat at the info session assured him that at the very least the school wasn’t anti-Semitic.</p>
<p>Long Island schools have been mentioned. I would recommend Hofstra, but not Adelphi and not CW Post. The academics at the latter schools are not worth the sticker price.</p>
<p>Stony Brook has strong academics and very strong Jewish life. I think some of the boys discussed here could be admitted OOS. The sticker price is very friendly, too.</p>
<p>The same Hillel director has been there for 30 years, and he and his wife are very dedicated. He turned my Marxist best friend into a Reconstructionist Rabbi, and there is an active shul within walking distance. Reform.</p>