<p>MotherOfTwo,
Didn’t you have football players to help unload your car? They were all over the place at D’s dorm. It was terrific, she and I carried up one or two light items and they took everything else. We were similar to you. I assembled while she unpacked with occassional requests for advice. She took care of computer later while I was at the advisor meeting. Roommate and mom got there later but seemed to have a similar approach though Mom was out more because of the timing.</p>