<p>“intereresteddad - it seems from your posts that you would now rule out any schools that have a moderate high to high binge drinking rate - or “work hard party hard” reputation. That cuts out some good schools - including Dartmouth, Williams, Duke, UVA. Others with relatively high frat populations and/or popular D1 sports might also make the list (Wake Forest, Miami, Lehigh, Boston College, Notre Dame). Also, most big state schools.”</p>
<p>I’m not ID, but I wouldn’t have. However, my D. did, after visiting and staying over on Thursday evenings. Students will go where they feel comfortable. Some schools even delight in their “work hard/play hard” mentality, and promote it, and students choose them for that reason.</p>
<p>What I think is a mistake, however, is not going in with eyes wide open. At many of these “good” schools, the number of moderate drinkers is rather small, and has been shrinking. There are many potential students who don’t want to be abstainers, but would clearly be unhappy at a school where 9.4% of the student body had had an alcohol blackout in the previous month (Duke), or where 29% of the student body are near-daily drinkers (Williams), or simply 84% of the student body had been drinking in the previous two weeks (Penn State). Given that in each and every case there is a school easily as good, being armed with information allows parents and students to make tradeoffs. And they may decide in favor of the school with those characteristics, and I think that’s just fine. Most will “survive” (I hardly think of that as a recommendation!), and some will flourish.</p>
<p>There is absolutely no question in my mind that heavy drinking on campus impinges on the academic quality experienced by everyone, but that is another discussion. And for students who come from parents with genetic predispositions toward alcoholism and addiction, it is fair to say that I think some of these campuses are quite literally “death traps” - I know what the figures are for premature mortality, liver cancer, cirrhosis, domestic violence, and etc. over time (as, unfortunately, do so many families), and I deal with people who experience this professionally, and I think the best way to avoid that is for parents to be equipped with the best available information.</p>
<p>(I’ve noted before: my roommate was an alcoholic. He wasn’t a partyer. He wasn’t loud and obnoxious (actually, he was mostly silent when he wasn’t drinking, and simply relaxed when he was); he didn’t even go parties! He didn’t vomit; in fact, he didn’t “binge”; he just drank, beginning in the morning. It ran in his family. He didn’t die of it, though he did drop out of school for a year. He was murdered three years after graduation one block from Harvard Yard.)</p>