Apply to the schools that give auto merit. Women in engineering isn’t especially a hook, and a 33 ACT/rest of your profile is generally pretty common in decent eng programs. If you need money, you need to look at schools wherethe stats are above average. this often looks like less desirable schools. As per above, define your actual budget. Engineering sets the bar higher, so even in nice state schools, eng programs don’t need to buy students. What is your home state? PSAT score?