<p>Name an elitist liberal arts college/university that ISN’T “widely known as being friendly to gay men.” They all are. And lots of them aren’t in Poughkeepsie and have a much wider variety of gay men from which to find partners.</p>
<p>As for your other point, (a) I haven’t read any posts here denying that the ratio could be a negative factor for straight women, and (b) where are you getting your data on the percentage of women at Vassar who are straight? For all we know, there is no imbalance at all between straight men and straight women there.</p>
<p>(Just kidding. I think there is, too. But I love it when people turn their prejudices into facts.)</p>