Colleges you/child crossed off the list after visiting

<p>mominsc: I had a couple I was going to suggest (Rhodes & Belmont in TN) but then I saw the engineering major portion. Vanderbilt is probably just a little too big.</p>

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You should read “Blink” by Malcolm Gladwell.</p>

<p>Cornell
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<p>DD and DH BOTH hated it. Too far, crummy weather, and kids looking miserable walking to class. </p>

<p>I didn’t go on this visit, but I was hoping they would love it. Ithaca, Moosewood, it was a fantasy campus from my youth in Ann Arbor. </p>

<p>Oh well, I had to agree that it was too far from an airport for us Californians.</p>

<p>mominsc: take a look at Elon</p>

<p>mominsc: Elon is a beautiful campus and offers a 3-2 engineering program with partnered schools (I think VTech is one of them) but doesn’t have its own engineering school.</p>

<p>I think Rice in Tx sounds like a good fit. Top notch academics, diversity and engineering. If diversity is important, you might need to look further afield for privates in the south.</p>

<p>Brave Ulysses: DS really wants to stay at the same school all 4 years. So I think we crossed Elon off the list.</p>

<p>Plus he doesn’t necessarily want to go to an engineering school - but wants the option to be able to take engineering classes.</p>

<p>911C2S: Rice seems like a great fit to me, too - only it’s in TX - which is probably further away than DS wants to go. I’m urging him to apply, so we’ll see.</p>

<p>duke. it rained and the tour guide was horrible. i know that sounds superficial, but i can’t help it. however, the admission info session was admittedly the best i experienced.</p>

<p>loved princeton, was by far my favorite from the moment we stepped on campus.</p>

<p>Last year, before applying, I visited a few colleges. Went to George Washington University, couldn’t even tell it was a university. Just some city blocks, with a few buildings with flags that might have said “George Washington” if the wind had been blowing enough to make them readable. Also, I know it wasn’t meant that way, but up the marble steps of their business schools, it said “Who says business is all about money? George Washington University.” I will assume it was a slogan, followed by their name, but it seemed like a question and answer. A few of the students were nice, more were rude, and I didn’t even apply.</p>

<p>Conversely, when I visited Notre Dame, I loved it; great campus, great academics, great feel to the place, great people, and
 horrible weather, haha (but I can deal with that). By far my best college visit, and I’ll be happy to be going back in two weeks for classes.</p>

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<p>^^My friend goes there and loves it too!</p>

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Have you considered Auburn? We did not expect to like it and liked it very much. It is surprisingly close to Atlanta given that it is in Alabama.</p>

<p>BENNINGTON COLLEGE: People were friendly and the surrounding area was very nice-- lush and green. Quite a surprise for a kid who comes from the scrubby brown Southern California ecosystem. Some of the facilities were quite nice too. However
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<li><p>Dorms were awful. The old Colonial houses they use for housing are poorly-lit, cramped, and smelled like my grandmother’s house. The tour guide told us that there was a real sense of community once your 25 or 30 roommates move in, which I can envision. And they’re coed (but I’m not one to complain about that). One more thing: the postmodern houses, built in 2006, are much nicer, but statistically speaking you’re far more likely to find yourself in one of the colonials.</p></li>
<li><p>VAPA, touted as their arts department’s biggest draw, was underwhelming. They don’t even have a mainstage theater. True, the faculty are some of the best and their other facilities look alright, but it disappointed me that the performance spaces were less than the theaters at every high school in my town.</p></li>
<li><p>Not sure what to make of the Plan Program. I do like the fact that you’re more in control than one would be anywhere else when it comes to managing your own curriculum. However, the whole thing seems rather abstract-- more “learning for the sake of learning” rather than preparing their students for the real world. They do have the Field Work Term to mitigate this, but I’m just not sure what a degree from them is worth, or if I’d be better off at a conservatory-style program.</p></li>
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<p>Final grade: still on the Will Apply list, but its stock has taken a hit.</p>

<p>University of Virginia - We did a recent tour with the kids. We were all totally underwhelmed. I liked the early 19th Century buildings near the Rotunda and Mr. Jefferson’s lawn, but the rest of the campus looked like a slightly nicer version of University of Maryland. The way that some people rave about the UVA campus, I was expecting something more interesting looking. The students we ran into were nice enough, but reminded me of boring Northern Virgina suburban kids. There was nothing really wrong with UVA (or U Md, for that matter), but I just think my kids would be better fits at a smaller LAC or mid-sized university.</p>

<p>Most high achievers are boring suburban kids. Maybe they did not feel you were that interesting and just wanted to get away.</p>

<p>^Nice response, Barrons. Actually, most of my friends, relatives and work colleagues find my kids interesting and very funny. If nothing else, their English accents usually make them somewhat interesting to Americans, particularly when we get outside of large US cities. By the way, when I lived in DC, I generally found the people in NoVa to be less interesting, and more Philistine, that people from DC or Montgomery County, MD. Look, as I already said, there is nothing wrong with UVA, I just don’t think it would be a good fit for someone coming from an small, urban London high school, okay?</p>

<p>Things always sound so much more interesting with an English accent.</p>

<p>^ I’m all on board for saying a school isn’t right for your kid. Putting down an entire region of kids by saying they are boring, less interesting might not be your best bet here.</p>

<p>“I generally found the people in NoVa to be less interesting, and more Philistine.”</p>

<p>Ha! Joke’s on you, John Bull. Philadelphia isn’t even in Virginia.</p>

<p>{just kidding}</p>

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Well, they did say “most,” not “all,” so they weren’t referring to someone in the city. For suburban, it makes sense; one would expect most “high achievers” to be relatively wealthy (leading to greater educational and extracurricular opportunities), and the wealthy tend to concentrate in the suburbs (see: “White flight”). Whether one finds wealthy American suburban culture “boring” or not is subjective, but it’s a personal view and thus honest, not so much “obnoxious.” There are certainly much more exciting cultures out there, from what I’ve seen.</p>

<p>JackUK, what high school did your kids go to? I’m from London and went to a regular school here (not international school) and I go to UVA, and it is absolutely perfect for me
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<p>Boston College</p>

<p>My son did not like the feel of the place. It was very different from what we expected. More suburban, less attractive, more rigid in curriculum, and the religious presence was much more apparent than expected. It is probably a wonderful place for someone where there is the right fit. It just wasn’t for him.</p>