Colleges your child crossed off the list after visiting, schools that moved up on the list. Why? (NO REPLIES)

We had twice visited Connecticut College, and S24 had already committed, but I think it moved up a little bit for all of us during our visit to Camel Day earlier this week. Professors and administrators we met and listened to were all very kind and approachable. The vibe is very friendly; kids say hi to each other and athletes don’t totally keep to themselves. The day was beautiful and many small classes seemed to be meeting on the lawns in the middle of campus. I was happy to hear that they are trying to right-size after getting a larger than expected class of 2026. Also happy to see they are renovating the student center, redoing the turf field and resurfacing the track (which was much needed). Kids are assigned a bunch of counselors (1 faculty, 1 career, 2 student, maybe more) and I feel like as long as my kid is open to it, he will get a lot of support in figuring out what he wants to do with his life and how to achieve it.

Other schools we visited along the way in his college journey:

Boston College – Down for our kid, Same for me – Our Jewish kid didn’t like seeing Christian symbols, etc., though I actually thought the religiosity seemed pretty low-key.

Boston University – Down for all – Too urban, no real campus, not what our kid wanted.

Brandeis – Down for all – Campus appeared run-down and the layout made no sense.

UMass – Same for all – Food was memorably good for S24, but he decided it was too big.

Wesleyan University – Up for DS, down for me – Athletic facilities are really nice. I did not like the campus, and could not see my kid there at all, but he liked it a lot. Ultimately he jived better with the XC/TF coach at Conn but otherwise was considering ED.

Hamilton – Same for DS, me – He liked the campus, vibe, facilities. I felt it was too far too remote. He would have considered applying ED but wasn’t getting attention from the coach.

Haverford – Down for him, up for me – I was really impressed, thought it was beautiful, loved the connection with Bryn Mawr and the location. DS didn’t love it but never could articulate what he didn’t like. In the end it stayed on his RD list.

Bentley University – Up for him on first visit – Tour guide was great, campus is very logical, seems like a great place if you know you want to do business. Kid later attended a summer program there and decided he didn’t want to go to a business-focused school.

Hofstra – Down for all – It hurt that we visited during winter break when no one was there. Dorm we saw was depressing, and nothing was notably good.

Kid briefly entertained going out west, and liked Occidental and Santa Clara; Whittier was very rundown and looked like it could close down at any moment.

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Agnes Scott College -off the list

This might be the most beautiful campus I ever stepped foot on. I visited for Admitted Students Day. It was a sunny day and I could easily imagine myself riding my bike across campus or sitting on the grass and studying.

The Dean of Students was very approachable and friendly. I attended a creative writing class and it was probably my favorite mock class I attended this year. They had an academic and students services fair with representatives from each department but this was extremely crowded and felt chaotic. I ended up sitting outside with my mom. The tour of campus was quick and campus felt pretty compact. The dorm rooms were really nice and they have large closets. I toured the arts building, which felt a lot like the Wonka factory on the outside. They have a nice little art gallery and sunny studio spaces upstairs. There was a small theater down a side hallway and they had photos from all of their productions over the years. Ultimately Agnes Scott came off my list because I don’t think their arts offerings are enough for what I am seeking. The day ended with their famous fried chicken dinner which lives up to the hype.

I have one major criticism of their Admitted Students Day after visiting several other small liberal arts colleges. For every other college I visited, my admissions counselor or current student reached out before my visit to ask if I had questions. I didn’t get anything in advance - just my initial confirmation email at the time of registration. At other colleges my admissions counselor made sure to talk to me during my visit, even if just to say hi. That didn’t happen here and I think it did contribute to me feeling a little more disconnected. It was definitely lacking the personal touch that I had become accustomed to.

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Colby—Down-Out

S24’s grandfather graduated from Colby in 1951 and fought the fires in Acadia back in the day.

He donated >$1 million over the years. He enjoyed the yearly alumni and summer school reunions.
When we moved to Maine, he was ecstatic. Years ago, he passed away and left some money for the kids to go to college.

He would have been thrilled that my admitted S24 visited campus today, but horrified at the outcome.

S24 arrived on campus hoping to see the performing arts center but was forced once again to tour the sports facility. In the intro psych class, the kids were talking and jousting so much that S24 couldn’t hear anything. 0 learning interest. In an upper level genetics class, S24 raised his hand to answer a question because nobody else seemed interested. everyone playing games on their computers. S24 said “they seemed to be dumb as rocks”.

Lunch time came around, and, instead of the amazing pre-pandemic food, the grilled cheese and pasta were ice cold.

No tour of the dorms, only focus was on the sports facility and not the new performing arts center. Terrible day, but confirmed my S24’s intention to go to Bowdoin.

His GF will be rolling in his grave at how S24 was treated today, and a “sternly worded letter”, pun intended if you know Susan Collins, will be sent to the Colby admin. Such a shame.

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We’ve done a few admitted student days this winter/spring.

Western Michigan - down for both of us. They did quite a few things that we enjoyed a lot. We sat in on an honors class and we enjoyed it quite a bit. They had student groups out to talk to, which is nice, but it was very crowded. It made it difficult. The engineering building was open with many labs staffed with professors and students. This was excellent. We visited quite a few of the labs and talked to many people. It was a definite highlight and probably the best engineering tour we’ve had.

However, we learned they are knocking down a dorm and the new one won’t open until fall 2026. This means no single rooms for next year. This is a high priority, so it really knocked it down a lot. And the dorms are tight. Not much room and she was not thrilled.

And while the engineering tour was great, the engineering “campus” is very isolated. There is nothing else there. There is a small cafe with sandwiches, pizza and grab and go things, but no actual cafeteria or restaurant. If you don’t have a car, it’s a hike to get to the campus and then if you want more food options, you need to bus it back to the main campus. I worried about the lack of options by junior year when most classes are engineering and you are spending the entire day up there.

Michigan State - down. We were there for the ADS day and did the engineering session. There wasn’t a tour, so that was disappointing. We did a general tour and both thought the dorm rooms were pretty decent. No singles, but the rooms were a good size for 2 people. Much nicer than other places we’ve seen. She didn’t love how the campus had main roads cutting through it. The cafeteria food was good overall as well. We did the session for professoral assistantships and I think that sounds like a fantastic program. I wish one of my kids was interested in it! Overall, it was too big, and just not a hit for her.

UAH - up. This was our second visit there. We went to the engineering meet and greet, but it was really a presentation. We were late, so missed a lot. And no tour, but we had done that last time. We went to sessions on the honors program and liked the things they offer. I can see her participating in some of the activities. She did the student meeting student session and actually liked it and came out with some phone numbers for girls she connected with. We liked how many students were out around campus, even on a Saturday. Overall it was a good day and made her feel confident with her decision to go there.

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Middlebury - Up, with the caveat that he wouldn’t even consider it six months ago because of its proximity to home. We visited as an “intro to college tours” experience for him, since it’s close and at the time, he had no idea what features of schools were important to him. He was expecting it to be too small, but he was surprised that he liked it. All families on this tour/info session were from Vermont, so it was humorous when our presenter tried to put our minds at ease about winter. Our tour guide was personable and an athlete in S25’s sport, so he was able to ask questions about the team when the opportunity presented itself. Students were out and about with many, especially those in the science center, deeply engaged in work. Those walking about campus did not have their heads buried in their phones and engaged with our tour guide and the group. We got to see inside a dorm (but not a room), the student center, science center, and both libraries (but only briefly in Davis). We both left with the feeling that the school’s use of its physical space leaves it still feeling open and expansive, even with the construction of a huge dorm underway. Unfortunately, we did not tour the arts center, any dining halls, or the field house. In fact, there was little to no mention of the arts at all. I think if S25 had asked about this, our guide would have made the effort to point out facilities. We were able to check out the field house on our own, which he had already seen five or six years ago while in the area for an event, but this time was of course different. Overall, S25 said he could see himself there and it moved significantly up his list.

American - same/down. Husband went on this one. Both he and S25 reported that they liked the campus itself, but that the vibe was strange/odd. They didn’t really see many students around despite it being a weekday morning, even in classroom buildings. S25 liked the sound of their programs and thought the dorms and buildings were nice. They got to see a room, which S25 appreciated and thought looked fine. He was underwhelmed by the athletic facilities. We did have the opportunity to interact with a graduate of American on one of our tourist activities and a current student a few days after his tour, and both spoke highly of their experience. S25 will keep it on his list for now based on that feedback.

GWU - Way up. We had a very enthusiastic presenter for the info session, which we figure had about 75 people in attendance. Admissions is located in the student center, which is a smart move. Lots of students studying and socializing in this space, which S25 appreciated. Our tour guide was also very enthusiastic and is clearly making the most of her time at GW. Campus was a hive of activity with students everywhere; some were working, some just hanging out and talking. We got to walk through the dining hall which had a great atmosphere (Michael Jackson playing in the dining area), and I got a huge kick out of the “teaching kitchen” for students who want to learn how to cook before they start living more independently. Kids were engaged in conversation with each other and not just on their phones. Our tour guide addressed food, housing, campus safety and security, access to professors and the function of TAs, internships, weekend activities, work load, and competitive vs. collaborative atmosphere on campus (S25 didn’t frame this question well enough, so the answer wasn’t quite clear). He listened to some conversations about Greek life, but he never really filled me in on those details. The classroom building we visited was a former parking garage, but it didn’t feel dark or depressing at all. Instead it was light-filled and open. It would have been great to see the athletic facilities, but we only saw that from the outside. S25 was not expecting to like an urban campus, but he came away feeling that it did have the cohesiveness he would like and he liked the energy on campus. We could have taken the shuttle to the Mt. Vernon campus, but we were short on time. We did leave with swag.

Georgetown - same/down? Georgetown was not officially on his list because he recognizes it as the reach that it is. But given his interests and that we were in DC, we thought it justified a visit. We both agree that our impressions were probably influenced by the day we were able to visit. I expected a big group on a Saturday, but it was also accepted students weekend, so campus felt a bit overrun with both prospective and admitted students and families, and probably also tourists. It just felt way busier than I expected. The info session was very good (guessing about 120 attendees in that session alone) - clear, to the point, and she did a good job of explaining the different colleges, programs, and admissions process. We then split into tour groups. Our guides were engaging and had a certain dry wit that I appreciated, but our group was huge, so between the air traffic overhead, the announcer/music at the lacrosse game, and the size of the group (30 or so?), it was often difficult to hear what they were saying, especially since as the parent I try to hang to the back a bit. Our guides addressed housing, food, clubs/campus activities/the Georgetown bubble, spiritual life, internships and research, and touched on athletics. I also asked about student activism/openness to differences of opinion on the side, and our guide was not uncomfortable answering nor did his answer feel too scripted. S25 had noticed that there were way more political flyers around campus than at his previous tours. Campus itself was far more compact and perhaps not as “fancy” as either of us expected. We did not actually go in many buildings at all - just Healy and Hariri - as part of the official tour. We visited the field house after the main tour, and S25 observed that Midd’s pool and other field house spaces were much nicer. I think the field house surprised him a bit, and not in a great way, since it feels like there isn’t a dedicated space for the workout equipment in particular. It’s all sort of using the same space as basketball courts and the indoor track, if that makes any sense. S25 didn’t leave feeling strongly one way or the other about Georgetown. I’m not convinced that he saw himself as a student there, and that he sensed that it could be a bit more “intense” than what he’s looking for, both academically and socially. I think we both expected to be blown away by it perhaps, but that was not what happened.

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NURSING college visits!

NORTHERN MICHIGAN UNIVERSITY- DOWN.
The campus itself was lovely and well maintained. The tour guide was great, and the meal they provided was excellent. Unfortunately, it had too many downfalls for us. It is in a very rural area which we worried would limit clinical experiences. We stayed in the area a few days, and while its neat to check out the Michigan UP, my kid would find it difficult to live there. It takes a certain kind of kid. My kid emailed the counselor to thank him for his time after the visit, and she never recieved a reply back to that email. He was also supposed to check on something for my daughter, and she never got follow up from that either.
In addition, they also only allow 10 direct admit spots for nursing. The application for direct admit was a seperate application that only required a few clicks on their website to write in basic info. (No essay, no resume, no recommendations asked for,) to which she recieved a denial to it. It was a very odd application, and i am not sure how they gather needed info to make a decision, as they didn’t ask for anyting really. We were left scratching our heads on their selection process. I don’t even think the college had her common app essay either, as even that was basic!

ILLINOIS STATE UNIVERSITY- DOWN
Daughter was admitted direct admit nursing and given in-state tuition plus a scholarship. This made this a great option, and we had read positive reviews on ISU. Their application process seemed significantly better as they asked for a few essays! It is also rolling and I really appreciate that so that they get a decision without waiting months!

We came into town around midnight after a long drive and we saw a lot of kids waking around partying. I know this happens at every college, but it was a bit much to actually see. The tour went ok, but nothing exciting. The best part was probably the presenter before the walking tour started. She did an excellent job. The worst part was the dorm tour. The building is so high that it took the elevator 5-10 min to get down to the main floor to take us up. The group walked down the stairs on the way down, because the elevator was (still) taking too long. I could not imagine waiting for this elevator constantly on a daily basis. The room was also super small!
At the end, they gave us meal voucher for the dining hall. We walked in and not much looked appealing so we left without eating. On the ride home we decided it was not going to work for my kid unless many other possibilities fell off the list.

WESTERN MICHIGAN UNIVERSITY- NEUTRAL
My 24 was admitted direct admit nursing. Seemed like an average college in pretty much every way possible. We did not see many students walking around (on a Saturday) and I was concerned that many kids may go home on the weekends?? They did not give us a dining voucher, and we did not even see a dining room on the tour, and I am not sure why. The dorms seemed ok, not fantastic, but at least they weren’t in a high rise like ISU.
My kid highly considered WMU because the program was direct admit for her (she was one of 20 admitted to direct admit,) tuition is low, and it is very close to home. It had everything, just no “wow” factor . This would have likely been her 2nd choice, especially because of the low cost!

MICHIGAN STATE UNIVERSITY- DOWN
Please note we only did a virtual admitted student nursing event, not an in person tour. However, we have been on the grounds before, and the grounds are beautiful and well maintained.
The virtual event was just basic info, and I felt like they threw it together with not a lot of prep involved. (For comparison, Miami of Ohio’s virtual events were all excellent, and you could tell they put a lot of effort into them! MSU’s were very sub par in comparison.)
My daughter was registered for admitted student day, in person, but we cancelled it when she got a denial to the Nurse Scholar Program. She was only admitted prenursing. They admit 500 plus prenursing students and only take 120 of them to continue on Sophmore year. It was too risky for her. Although MSU was a top pick for her, she wants to become a nurse more than she wants to go to MSU. That was a hard decision to have to make for her. (I will also note: she knows kids who got into UMICH and other amazing/selective universities, who got denied also to the Nurse Scholar program.) I am not sure why they don’t just make their program all DA like UofM does.

MARQUETTE UNIVERSITY- WAY UP
We took the train which was easy, cheap and uneventful. For an out of state university, it is great to have this option. We walked from the train station to our hotel and later to campus! In fact, everything in Milwaukee was walkable! The campus was the perfect size (medium!) and managable! Everything looked very clean!
The tour guide was great, dorm options all great, and the dining hall had fantastic food. We both found plenty to eat!
They are building a brand new nursing building that looks amazing. Their entire nursing program is direct admit. We liked that the students will collaborate instead of compete for spots! It is urban, which we feel that will provide a lot of clinical placement options. We were told placements are typically within 15-20 min which is ideal! Had the WOW factor missing from WMU. We felt it was worth the increase in cost, and they did give decent merit so its not outragious in cost like some others were. Daughter ended up commiting here!

CANCELLED TOUR:
We were going to visit Miami Ohio where daughter got in direct admit, but the merit they gave her was too low. It was going to be over 50k a year! She did appeal for more merit. They asked for mid year grades (her’s were excellent!) and an additional essay, which she wrote and sent in. Crickets since then. It got crossed off the list because we could not justify that price. Plus we were a little concerned about it not being in an urban environment and what that would mean for clincial distance. I hear the campus is beautiful and daughter was bummed to not get to see it but at that price it wasnt an option.

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Visited a few schools over the spring break with S26 and one with both S26 and D26 (her break was earlier).

UPenn - Same - S26 liked the urban, bustling campus and how easy it is to get around. He liked the interdisciplinary nature of the school and the ease of taking classes across the different colleges. But the tour was not very informative and we didn’t get to see inside any of the buildings. We were told that the freshman dorms that are being renovated are going to be great, so we’ll have to take their word for it. We did sneak into the cafeteria after the tour, but my gluten-free kid took a look around and announced there was nothing he could eat. Overall, he’s quite taken with the Ivy allure, not sure how much the tour mattered for him.

Georgia Tech - Down and out - but this was the most informative and useful visit that really helps us narrow down the list! S26, whose primary interests are in bio and chem, realized he really does not want a tech school with very limited liberal arts offerings. He also hated the idea of coops and most people taking a year off to work and delaying graduation. Our tour guide, who was a science major, spoke about the school not really being her first choice and having reservations as a non-engineering student, but then deciding to stay because everyone was “nice.” My son was not sold.

Emory - UP - really liked this one! The campus was beautiful. Air-conditioned dorms were a huge plus! The kids seemed friendly and looked like they were having fun. The info session was most interactive of all we’ve attended so far, a large part of it was Q & A. S26 really liked that there are tons of research opportunities available right away in your freshman year. He could really see himself there. The only negative is that it was more suburban than we expected; Emory Village is very small and a few miles away from downtown.

Lehigh - visited with both S26 and D26. It’s UP for my daughter and Down for my son. Visiting with both kids, it was kind of fascinating to see how different their reactions were. D loved the hilly, green campus, old buildings, fun school traditions, like bed racing, and big sports. She was really excited about the opportunity to intern at the UN (she’s thinking about political science/possibly pre-law). S hated the hills and numerous stairs, found the old buildings “depressing” and students lacking in diversity (very different from his high school). He thought the emphasis on sports and frats was a turn-off and declared that he just can’t see himself fitting in. Overall, it just confirmed that they’re looking for very different schools, which of course is totally fine.

I think we’re done for the school year, will likely resume touring in the fall.

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I hope this little throwaway comment is allowed - I just love how there are two posts right after the other, with two kids coming away with the exact opposite feelings and impressions about schools like Clemson, VT and NC State! Exactly what this thread is about.

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Because it’s a good point, I’m making the executive decision to allow. :grin:

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Two more visit experiences this week, one in-person and one online.

Duke: DOWN. It’s a lovely campus, very walkable. We had a good student guide giving us an honest low-down on what classes and social life are like, none of which sounded bad or unsupportive at all.

S25 came away saying that yeah, it seems like a nice school, but it seemed like the kind of school where he would have to say “I want to go to Duke, and I guess I could do engineering there.” It was just a very different perspective than what he’s been looking at with NC State and Virginia Tech (and maybe even anecdotally with his dad’s experiences at Purdue) where he feels like he would get more breadth with his engineering options.

LEHIGH: SAME. This was a virtual session focused on the engineering school, and it was very informative, I think. Several students from a variety of disciplines within the engineering school spoke about their experiences, including going off campus (even WAY off campus, like Montana and Colorado) for summer research programs. Very friendly kids and a well-run session.

S25 came away with a good enough impression of the engineering program, but he expressed concern about the school being too small. (As we go through this visitation process, we are definitely getting more of a sense of what is appealing to him and what isn’t.) So Lehigh might still be on the in-person visit list over the summer, but I could just as easily see S25 saying we don’t need to bother. Maybe a trip to Penn State University Park will be enough of a stretch. We shall see!

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So we just finished a strong of 6 (or 6½, as you’ll see below) college tours in 8 days across the New York City area and Upstate New York. My C25 is interested in majoring in, in descending order, math (pure math, not applied), linguistics (primarily theory, particularly semantics and pragmatics), and econ (preferably as a social science, not for business). Since linguistics is the least commonly offered of those, we’ve been using that as a first filter—and New York State has a surprising cluster of colleges that offer linguistics as at least a minor, so since we were going to be on the east coast anyway, we took an extra week for college tours in New York. Also, we’re a Big Merit Aid™ seeking family, so even though NYU has a good linguistics program, there are no good scholarships there that C25 would qualify for, so no need to visit them or other colleges with similarly stingy merit aid.

So here are the reports, with C25’s verdicts:

Fordham University: This was a self-guided tour (because they don’t do guided tours during at least most of the month of May), and so even with a pause halfway through we moved a lot quicker than most tours do, covering about a mile and a third in nearly precisely one hour. (We did get a chance to talk with an admissions counselor after the tour, which I had expected would be more helpful in getting a feel for the university than it was.) We toured the Rose Hill campus, which is the more traditional campus in the Bronx (very busy section of the city, but it feels very separate from it), but not the Lincoln Center campus, which is two city blocks in Manhattan. It’s an absolutely stunning gothic architecture campus (except for the gleaming new modernist metal and steel student center, and the much less gleaming international style STEM building). It was interesting seeing everything set up for graduation, which is held outdoors. (No idea what they do if it’s raining.) They have a very standard math major and a really interesting economics major, but only a minor in linguistics. They are one of the colleges that doesn’t take a lot of dual enrollment credit (such courses have to have been taken at a college and taught by regular college faculty, and also not have counted for high school requirements, to transfer in.) One excellent new bit of knowledge that came out of this tour is that C25 finds dense urban surroundings invigorating (though a defined campus is still a must), despite coming from a city on the smaller side of mid. Verdict: from not enough known to hold an opinion to at least slightly negative due to the lack of a linguistics major—that turns out to be important for C25—even though they do have some really good scholarships that C25 would be competitive for and C25 really liked the location.

Hofstra University: This was tour #2 on this trip, but also in a way tour #1. We had arranged to meet up with one of C23’s friends who just finished their first year at Hofstra and get shown around on Wednesday, and then Hofstra opened up actual tours for Thursday and Friday, and so we signed up for a tour on Friday—we figured we’d get told about what it’s like being a student at Hofstra the first day, and then get the official word on the second. Instead, C23’s friend gave us a legit full tour of the Hofstra campus—it wasn’t the same route as the one we got Friday, and it was slightly shorter and definitely quicker than the official tour (a mile and a half in 40 minutes vs a mile and two-thirds in an hour and a quarter), but still. (There was even a bit of walking backwards!) So that was kind of an interesting turn of events, leading C25 to wonder why we even needed to show up for a “second” tour. The campus doesn’t really have an overarching architectural style, though you can tell that they did for some reason find brutalism very appealing when it was inexplicably the fashionable thing to do, and so a lot of their buildings are in that style. The grounds, on the other hand, are quite excellent, with a wide variety of trees and other greenery making it reasonably pleasant to walk around. The campus is split in half by a wide, busy roadway, and so there are three pedestrian overpasses, one of which the student center opens directly into. They have a clear gender neutral housing policy, and it seems to work okay though not perfectly. They have a linguistics major (and a master’s in forensic linguistics, one of the—if not the—only such program in the United States), but their math major is a little confusing, not least because they title their math courses differently from everybody else for some reason. A bonus of doing the official tour is that C25 now has an application fee waiver for them. Verdict: unchanged from vaguely positive to vaguely positive.

Stony Brook University: Stony Brook apparently can’t be bothered to give tours during May, so we went out to the campus to have lunch with a linguistics professor there I know there and then have him show us around the campus a bit. It’s a two hour ride on the Long Island Rail Road from New York City, with the station immediately adjacent to the campus. (It’s a fairly large campus, though, and so it’s not like you’d easily walk from the train directly to class—but the university runs shuttles around the campus and the station.) We covered a bit over a mile and a half in just under an hour, which included some time sitting down in one of the labs the linguistics department has, but that’s just the time spent walking—we also got driven around the road that loops the campus. It’s very much a red brick campus (plus one absolutely insane massive brutalist building off to the side that legit looks like it could be the centerpiece in a cyberpunk dystopia movie), with a lot of outdoor space for students to congregate. A very cool academic bonus: There are some interesting connections between mathematics and linguistics going on there, which is admittedly very inside-baseball but also very cool in terms of the development of the theoretical underpinnings of linguistics. However, in the wake of this tour C25 realized a desire to be able to take coursework on the social side of linguistics even while focusing on theory, and Stony Brook wouldn’t really allow that to happen—their program is all theory, all the time. Verdict: from neutral to negative, likely off the list.

University of Rochester: After our three tours in the New York City metro area, we moved on to the first of our three tours in Upstate New York. This was just a tour, with no info session—though apparently there was an info session before the tour that we weren’t there for, but that was remarkably opaque from the whole signup process. (Not the first time I’ve experienced that particular weirdness! Admissions offices, remember that those of us setting up tours don’t know everything about your schedule that you know.) The campus is largely neocolonial (red brick and columns!) architecturally, but more understatedly so than many other neocolonial campuses. There were three tour guides for just two students touring, which was kind of amusing—though one of the tour guides was either in training or supervising (seriously, couldn’t tell which) and spoke very little, while the other two walked backward the entire time (even up and down stairs). It felt like a very thorough tour (and covered nearly a mile in a bit over an hour), though a drive around and through the campus afterward drove home (ha! pun!) how much we ended up still not seeing. (And the tour spent a lot of time in the library. The library is kind of amazing without being an over the top Bodleian Library wannabe like you see at a lot of other places with old money.) There were a fair number of jokes about how the university is R1, but its sports are D3. The math and linguistics programs there are both good, so that’s a plus. There are very few general education requirements, which is both good and bad, but for C25 a net positive because it might actually make triple majoring possible. One very real concern, though: Air conditioning is lacking on campus, which was painfully obvious since our tour occurred while the temperature was an unseasonably warm 90F (that’s over 32C, for those who speak metric). The tour guides said it wasn’t a big deal because it’s “so cold” in Rochester most all of the year, though I suspect that what counts as so cold for someone from, say, New York City (as one of our tour guides was) may well be materially different from what counts as so cold—or maybe even just comfortable—for someone from our part of Alaska, where temperatures in the mid-70s are just too hot. C25 was, though, very taken with the focus on research, and especially cross-disciplinary research. Verdict: from mildly negative to strongly positive, perhaps even at or near the top of the list.

Syracuse University: This was our second consecutive day of college tours in 90F heat, and especially since this ended up being the longest of the touring days on this trip, we were utterly wiped out by the end of it. We started out in the late morning with a College of Arts and Sciences info session, then we ate lunch at a Five Guys just off campus (have to take advantage of brands that don’t exist in Alaska when we can!), and then we went to another info session—this time for the entire university, and thus much more generic—that was followed by the actual tour itself. Both info sessions were pretty rapid fire, but the college-level one (which had two students) had room for questions afterward, while the university-level one (with three students) didn’t. For the tour itself, we had two tour guides for three students, and it was an open-jaw tour, covering nearly a mile in a little over an hour. There were a lot of stops on the tour, which was fortunate given that the university is built on a hill—which is a bit of a concern, given C25’s mild but very real chronic joint issues. Those stops were frequently in full sun, however, even though there are lots of trees on campus and we could have gotten at least dappled shade more than we did—I’m not certain, but we may have gotten lightly sunburned from it. The campus architecture is a range of styles, from Tudor to Romanesque Revival to Neoclassical to Brutalist—and one of those Brutalist buildings was actually pretty! (But only one of them.) There was a lot of focus on the ability to do undergraduate research during the info sessions and tours, but it seemed a little less baked in to the default student experience than at Rochester. The linguistics curriculum is solid, and the math curriculum allows for some good flexibility in deciding what to focus on, so that’s all good. Verdict: from neutral to positive, maybe even strongly positive.

University at Buffalo: The last of our 6½ college tours in eight days, this started with a half-hour info session—arguably the most comprehensive, information-dense info session I’ve ever seen, though even so it honestly didn’t say anything that isn’t on the website—followed by a two(!) mile long tour that took under an hour and a half, notably faster than the one mile per hour pace of most tours. This was easily the most heavily attended tour of our trip—there were more than 30 students (plus a good number of parents) there to tour that afternoon, and so they split us up between four (I think) tour guides—our group had either eight or nine students in it (not sure if one was a trailing sibling or not). Our tour guide walked backward the entire time, and had a portable microphone. (Please, colleges, consider providing all your tour guides microphones! It really does help.) There was also a tour guide in training who was shadowing our guide. It turns out that Buffalo has three campuses, the north campus (which contains nearly all the undergrad as well as some graduate programs), the south campus (which contains several of the graduate programs), and the downtown campus (which is entirely med-school focused). The south campus is the original and, judging from the pictures, prettier campus, but we toured the north campus, since that’s where C25 would be attending. The north campus is nearly entirely orangish-red brick with occasional cast concrete accents, and is very mid-twentieth century modernist in style, providing a consistent appearance overall, but that consistency is that of a soulless office park. All of the academic buildings are connected by enclosed walkways (mostly above ground, on the second floor), and there is ample green space surrounding the academic core, but not a lot of trees—and between the buildings it’s mostly paved-over space. The linguistics curriculum is very flexible, and math has a number of different concentrations including, unusually, one explicitly labelled “pure mathematics”, which is interesting. The presentation of the university and its programs, though, made it feel almost like the university sees its students as products of an educational assembly line, which I suspect wouldn’t have been a problem for my C23, but most definitely is for my C25 (while C25 wasn’t bothered by how boring the campus architecture is, but C23 probably would have been). Verdict: from not enough known to hold an opinion to very negative, and definitively off the list.

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Wheaton College (MA): DOWN (but not off). S25 really liked it based on the website/virtual tour, but found the tour a bit underwhelming, and I think was imagining it as being more in the Boston Metropolitan area than it functionally is. S25 toured with his dad so I don’t have an impression.

Brandeis UP: S25 thought it seemed like a vibrant solid community, a campus with a lot going on, and like the students were smart and nerdy in a good way but also, as he put it, “chill.” Also toured with his dad, but I am very familiar with the campus and a fan of the school.

Muhlenberg DOWN (and maybe off), same/positive for me: I thought we had a great tour guide and I found the campus charming and clearly well-resourced, and I appreciated that they stressed how vibrant their Jewish community is (something I have been concerned given the zeitgeist moment on campuses), but something about it didn’t click for S25. He didn’t hate it, and found some parts of the campus beautiful, especially the chapel (because of the stained glass), but said that he couldn’t really get a sense of how he would fit in there (I do wonder if it being a summer tour had to do with it, but he assured me this was not the case). The Maybe Off part is because we will be applying through TE, and the TE website for Muhlenberg basically says they reserve TE for early decision students. Given that S25 obviously did not like it enough to make it his ED school, I don’t know that there is a point in wasting a TE spot on it.

Ursinus UP for both of us. It was on our list of Pennsylvania SLACs in the TE/CIC networks to check out, but we didn’t have any particular expectations. S25 liked the variety of the specific majors, minors and concentrations they have, their “Shark Tank” like center for supporting student ideas/innovations, and what he heard about the walk-on possibility for sports (S25 is very athletic, but his current sport of choice isn’t a college sport, so no athletic recruitment for us – but he is interested in possibly playing a team sport in college, seems feasible at a D3 school). He also liked the diverse housing, and that upperclass students could live in Victorian houses converted into dorms across the street from the main campus. And the proximity to Philly. I liked the common intellectual experience set-up they have (I know most SLACs have something like that, but I liked specifically the way theirs is organized), and that the campus is full of public art. I am a little concerned about some feedback on the internet about issues with mold in their dorms, but then again they are far from the only college where this issue comes up from time to time.

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We visited 3 Virginia schools last week (from NJ).
UVA- same, probably. My daughter thinks she wants a school in an urban setting, but is open to small towns adjacent to campus with stuff going on, so I thought Charlottesville would fit the bill. We had trouble finding the location for the info session; Apple maps did not do us any favors when entering the building name, and other people seemed to have the same problem, there were a number of us showing up to an unclear destination. Eventually found it. Generic info session, excellent tour guide. It was hot, but she did a great job keeping us in the shade and taking us in to air conditioned buildings. Campus is tidy and pretty. There’s little doubt that the academics are good to outstanding across the board, and that opportunities are endless. But my daughter just felt like nothing stood out for her. She may apply, but it’s not a top choice (so far, Northeastern and USC have been her favorites).
Next day, University of Richmond. Down/off the list. This school is smaller than what she’s looking for, but I wanted her to see a smaller school, and to me, 3000 undergrads seems plenty. I’ve been impressed by the communication we’ve received from them. The parking space reserved for Future Spider (my daughter’s name) was a nice touch! Campus is pristine, almost uncannily perfect, and very attractive. Admissions presenter (a recent graduate who will be attending med school in the fall) did a nice job highlighting all the opportunities available to the students, more accessible because of the school’s smaller size and focus on undergrads. I was buying it, and ready to sign up. Things went a little downhill in the tour portion. There were 4 student tour guides who came to the front to introduce themselves. All 4 were young men from VA, all rising sophomores, all business majors. My daughter is not particularly interested in an undergrad business major, she’s thinking chemistry. They had us divide ourselves into groups, rather than the “first 3 rows go with this guy” approach, and it didn’t seem to matter which one we chose because they all fit the same profile. They were all probably new at the job, which makes sense, early summer. But our guide didn’t seem confident or enthusiastic about the school. There was one woman in the group who had lots of questions, and I had a few myself, and the poor kid kept replying “well it kind of just depends” (to questions like how students get around campus [walk/bike/shuttle] or what people do on weekends). I recognize that it may not be so easy to recruit tour guides in the summer, but I do wonder if they could have found a little more academic variety among the 4 guides, because my daughter who wasn’t overly excited about the school to begin with but was trying to keep an open mind, left with the impression that it’s a school full of aspiring finance bros from Virginia.
Last on this trip, William and Mary. Slightly up. We liked this one probably best of the 3. It was hot, hot, hot by this point in the day/week, and that hampered our ability to take it all in, but even with the blinding sun and withering temps, the campus was pretty and cute. Great walk through the integrated science center, where there were students in the labs, and impressive posters on the walls, featuring student and faculty research. Our tour guide was clearly fond of the school, bright and full of anecdotes. We all liked it here. Williamsburg is postcard-perfect looking, and really a tourist town more than a college town, and my daughter appreciated the Chik Fil A right off campus, but I think she felt it is still too isolated for her. I She may still apply, and I think she’d do well here.
What this trip clarified is that she really does want a larger, urban school, and we need not look at any more small or rural schools. The people in all 3 areas of Virginia that we visited were truly warm and kind and welcoming, and we noticed the lower cost of living relative to where we are in the northeast. I wish I could go back to college!

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Delayed April 2024 Spring Break College Visit Update We visited 5 colleges in 4 days in MA/Boston which was a lot but added in some free time in city and some side trips so my family would not kill me.

I have twins who are rising seniors (Class of 2025) looking into STEM Schools with majors Environmental Engineering and Computer Science. We are in rural part of central NY, so they are both looking for schools closer to or in more urban areas to gain new experiences and exposure.

UMASS: Up… I wanted kids to see a larger state school and I was pleasantly surprised they both really liked the UMASS campus and area. More remote and rural than what they were looking for, but the campus is a small city by itself, and downtown Amherst has a lot to offer as well as new shops and dining outside campus. Info session and tour were best I have experienced, guides are handpicked and kept things entertaining. Campus is large but manageable, academic buildings are centrally located. Amazing dining areas and food was top notch. D1 Athletic facilities and a lot of school pride with UMASS gear and merchandise all over. I believe they said they offer up to $16K out of state scholarships to try to bring cost down. Closest to home at 2.5 hrs. and a lot to offer. CS major is highly competitive with low admit rate. One or both my apply and see how COA pans out.

Tufts: Down…Down rating had a lot to do with weather that morning which was Spring snowstorm and a few inches of slush and ice. Lot of families from CA there, they had more fun walking in wind and slush then we did as we were ready to be done with winter. Information session was very informal, no slides, just talking in a big lecture call. I like to see info visually so detracted some. Tons of families from out of state, many out west. Tour was OK but dampened by cold and snow. Campus seems smaller than expected as a lot of building were off main campus and intermingled into neighboring streets. New T station which can be taken right into city but still felt suburban. Outside the elephant statue, nothing really made it stand out from other campuses we visited, just middle of road. Still excellent engineering programs so likely will remain on list for next year.

Boston College: Same…Campus was amazing and beautiful; I’d put it up right there with Duke and Villanova which we have visited. Visitor center new and shiny, tied in Harry Potter Hogwarts theming in video. Again, lot of families from south and west visiting. Tour was great as we hit almost every impressive stone building. Only college with full D1 sports program (ACC). Local area was nice but suburban even though only a few miles outside city. This felt like your traditional college campus. I really liked but kids were hoping for more urban and they only had new Human Engineering major versus full suite of engineering majors. Could stay on list for son and CS interest.

Northeastern: Way Up…We attended info session and tour in morning and spent afternoon in Boston. Drove in with car and parked in campus garage and left there for day. They validate (free) for 3 hrs. and then you pay the difference which was still $$. Both kids loved the urban campus and feel. New modern buildings have that big WOW factor. They said it still felt like a campus versus other city schools like BU. They really hammered home COOP requirements and other US/Overseas campuses and programs available in info session. Checked all the boxes. Admissions presenter stated that AVG SAT is inflated due to only those submitting who had high scores, suggesting going Test Optional if not in middle AVG to crowd to ensure no negative impact during application review. After tour we took T ($2 pp) from campus to North End for Italian and pastries. Visted Paul Revere Home and Old North Church as well as Qunicy Market. Just a ton to do in city and only $2 fare away. We felt safe at all times to include campus and city.

WPI: Down Slightly… Attended an open house on the ride back to NY. Family was pretty burnt out by then and impacted visit. Overall good campus and programs, kids were unsure about 10-week rotating schedule and impact. Lot of techy things like roaming robots, active maker spaces, events. Campus was smaller than expected but still appealing. Unique Fire Protection Engineering major highlighted as well as AI programs. Good overall visit but school may be a little underwhelming after visiting NU and BC campuses and not in Boston. One or both will likely still keep as option as free to apply.

Both kids said they are all set with tours right now, so nothing planned for summer. They want to work on Common App Essay and chill out some after tough Junior year. We may hit some fall open houses and finalizing list for ED/EA and then RG consideration. Hope this feedback helps. Best of Luck to all next cycle!!

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Over the past year, S24 toured CU Boulder, University of Virginia, Michigan, Minnesota, Iowa State, and Cornell. All of them except one did a great job and represented their schools well. In the process, S24 fell in love with Wisconsin and we were particularly impressed by Iowa State’s Admitted Engineers Day. The mechanical engineering professor who spoke cemented S24’s interest in the field and they did a great job showcasing their honors program. The head of the honors program could have a second career as a stand-up comic and had me laughing so hard that I was crying.

There was one exception and that was Cornell. Ithaca is beautiful, as is the Cornell campus and its setting. We were impressed until we went on our official campus tour.

The tour guide was a recent Cornell graduate who started by telling us that we had to boo whenever the name of another college came up during the tour. If he said “last season when we played Colgate in hockey” he would pause and wait for us to boo. I think it was supposed to be a running joke, but it didn’t go over well.

Next he pointed out some things that had changed on campus since his dad had been a student and discussed some of the classes he took where he didn’t learn very much. After going on at some length about ice cream at Cornell he turned to us and asked “Whose the most famous Cornell alum?” The tour group shouted out “Carl Sagan”, “Toni Morrison”, and “Kurt Vonnegut” and he said “no” or “wrong” to each. He then said that “the CORRECT answer is Bill Nye”. My 11 year old daughter turned to me and whispered “No, the correct answer is Ruth Bader Ginsburg”.

Next we stopped by a big stone building and he asked if we knew what this building had originally been used for. It looked like an old gymnasium and I said as much. He gave me this sad/disappointed look and said “No, that’s what it’s used for now”. Someone else on the tour then said “a prison?” and the guide said he was “close.” The guide then revealed that it had been a WW2 aircraft hanger.

As we walked back to the car after the tour, we paused to admire an amazing gorge and waterfall right in the middle of campus. I turned and asked what everyone thought and my S24, my wife, and my daughter all said “NOPE” at the same time. S24 didn’t bother to apply.

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We just did tours of a number of New England LACs. Some quick thoughts:

  1. Middlebury. I really liked the school and we had a great tour guide. My daughter thought it was good, but not good enough to do ED for. Middlebury is so incredibly ED focused that it drives the regular admissions rate to very low levels. So she will likely will not even apply.

  2. Bates. Loved all the people and the food (free meal vouchers!). The school has a reputation for these things and the did not disappoint. We did not like the neighborhood. My daughter just did not feel safe there. I am sure that official stats will indicate that Bates is incredibly safe, but my daughter’s perception = reality. Crossing this one off of our list.

  3. Wellesley. I posted on this elsewhere. I LOVED Wellesley. It seemed more like a Summer Camp than a College. Just a beautiful wooded setting on Lake Waban. Gorgeous old buildings that were updated on the inside–no musty odors. Top tier academics and a great message of female empowerment. Campus was OPEN unlike a lot of schools during the summer. Great little town right off of campus. I was blown away. My daughter thought it was OK only because she sensed a mean vibe among the students on campus. She may apply, but wants to research this more.

  4. Dartmouth. Great info session followed by an AWFUL tour. I almost reported our tour guide–she was that bad. Admittedly, parents asked her some bad questions or asked her questions about things that we already had talked about. But the tour guide was just INCREDULOUS at their stupidity. She had no grace whatsoever and it was really off-putting. I had to constantly remind my daughter not to let the actions of one person color her whole view of a school. But the damage was done. Off of our list.

  5. Smith. This one is FUNNY. We had a great visit. Loved the info session, loved the tour, loved the campus, loved the housing system. My daughter came in talking about ED’ing there and the visit only intensified her feeling. Then, when we and other families were leaving, we all got $50 parking tickets from Smith. We all literally printed out the parking passes that Smith emailed us and parked where we were supposed to. The tickets said that we were using “lost, stolen, altered, or invalid parking passes.” The terrible thing was…the parking lots were NEARLY EMPTY. I reached out to Admissions and they are mortified and trying to rectify the problem. Still, Smith is a strong ED candidate for my daughter, but they had better fix this parking thing. Very likely to apply, but this parking ticket thing is literally a “bureaucratic litmus test.”

  6. Bowdoin. Super nice people and a terrific tour. Great campus and academics. They gave us a meal discount and the food was really good. One thing rubbed me the wrong way. An AO talked about “baring your soul” in admissions essays. Then she would not answer a parent’s question about regular admissions rates and ED admissions rates (the answers are in the public realm). My daughter didn’t care, but I really did not like this. But the school is just so hard to get into that it is likely coming off of my daughter’s list.

  7. Mount Holyoke. God, what a beautiful campus! The only problem was…everything was CLOSED. We also had an odd tour. It was a slightly hot day (maybe 80 degrees) and our tour guide kept us inside for most of the tour. But MHC is SO PRETTY and this was a mistake on the school’s part. I don’t think that our tour group came away with an appreciation for MHC and most people just left after the tour. They also had only one info session, but it was hours before our tour, so we missed it. My daughter and I stayed and walked around after the tour and looked at the outside of buildings, but basically could not get in anywhere. We did meet a very nice person from MHC athletics who enthusiastically answered my daughter’s questions about volleyball (she is a candidate for D3 volleyball). Will apply, but our visit felt incomplete.

  8. Holy Cross. We added this school as an afterthought and my daughter LOVED it. Great tour guide. Great gym facility. Great science center. Nice dorm. I learned that my daughter is pretty “facilities driven” which gives me some pause for concern as I personally believe that people/culture > facilities. But what she says goes. Will apply.

One surprise to me as a business person. I was a little shocked at how unsophisticated some of the schools were in selling what is effectively a $400K product.

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