In addition to hydrating, ask your nurse if it would be possible to use a smaller gauge IV catheter since you are a difficult stick. Don’t ask for a “butterfly needle”-those are used for blood draws, not IVs. There are certain procedures where a larger bore catheter is necessary, so there is only so small they can go. The fluids you are receiving also play into this.
Ask if they could place a warm compress on your arm for a few minutes before IV insertion. This helps the veins to dilate.
Don’t think something is amiss if they thump or tap your vein beforehand. This also helps the vein to pop up.
While waiting for the nurse, keep your forearm lower than your heart level. Hang it off the bed-the gravity helps the veins to fill. You can pump you fist as well before they begin.
If you’ve been told that your veins are “tortuous” or have a lot of valves, let your nurse know. Sometimes when the catheter doesn’t advance, the nurse can use techniques to “float” the catheter past the valve. Better to ready beforehand than have to react in the moment.
If you know that a particular vein always seems to be a good one for IVs, let your nurse know. But don’t point at the bend in your arm and say “this one is always good.” The antecubital vein is often used for blood draws, but it isn’t the best place to start an IV. If that vein is injured, the nurse cannot go lower (“distal”). That’s why many facilities have a policy that the nurse start distal, or as “low” as possible. If you blow the vein low (the hand or wrist), you can keep trying upstream, but not vice versa. Also, people bend their arms a lot. When you bend the arm with an IV in the AC vein, the medication or fluid can’t advance through the vein. The IV pump will constantly alarm, or you may find that your medication isn’t giving you the benefit or relief you need.
Try to avoid the temptation to pressure the nurse or blame her competence if he is unsuccessful. EVERYONE misses. I’ve seen patients insult the best IV nurses and doctors for things which are just not their fault. And being human, sometimes you just don’t have a good day. Try to remember that you aren’t perfect either.
If you do have a nurse who misses twice, it’s not unreasonable to ask for someone else to try. Just try not to be a schmuck with the way you ask. If I missed twice, I always called another nurse in to try. Sometimes no one can get one, and other types of catheters must be considered which provide better access but come with more severe risks.