<p>I had the same thought Hornet. When I see the words “I would prefer…”, it’s something of a red flag. It really has to come from your son 2boymom, or he is likely to be one of those that doesn’t make it. Of course, we don’t know the particulars. Please don’t be offended --we try to all help and encourage each other on this board and it’s just my opinion as well.</p>