<p>Don’t get me wrong BassDad, I don’t regret any of the decisions made regarding my son. He does his share when time allows and we have a page of community service stuff. Many of his concerts do benefit various groups which is what we use.</p>
<p>My problem is that the system just seems biased towards others. I guess I’m just using the board to sound off on a particularly stressful week. Hope no one really minds.</p>
<p>Anyway, I have a daughter (flute/picollo) whose a soph and I wonder whether there are other things we can do. I’ll be going through this again starting next year, hoping to be more prepared the second time around :-))</p>