<p>Your friend is obviously deeply invested in Tufts and that may influence her opinion of Brandeis. The kind of people who love Tufts-the type who love high school and who were leaders of 4 clubs and members of 6 more-and the type who love Brandeis-the type who are a little wary of high school culture and are deeply involved with one or two passionate interests-are very different types of people. Make your own decision.</p>