For all of the colleges you are looking at run their online net price calculators to estimate your cost of attendance. Also look to see what each college requires re: financial aid application. Most public schools only require FAFSA to apply for fin aid, many private schools require FAFSA and CSS Profile.
For public colleges, generally OOS students pay higher tuition and yes, many also provide less aid to OOS students.
Create your college list based on the factors that appeal to you as well as what your family can afford to pay per year. Only you and your family can decide whether it is ‘worth it’ to go to college OOS.
If you post the colleges on your list CC’ers will be able to provide more advice.