You are NOT part of the problem. You are entitled to your own thoughts, your own feelings, and your own preferences. I’m delighted to hear that you’ve pursued counseling. Smart move!
You seem very self-reflective, so I take you at your word that you committed too hastily. I’m sorry that it hasn’t worked out better. If that was a mistake, welcome to the club. Mistakes just prove you’re human. There are a large number of college freshman who have second thoughts about their choice after getting to college. It’s not unusual to transfer at all.
You said in your original post that you’re looking for guidance about how to make the best choice for you. Do you have any specific questions that we can address?