Controlling Mother. help? How do I convince her?

<p>My mom isn’t bluffing at all. She said she’d disown me in front of my brother. My father isn’t going to help at all either. Hell, he doesn’t care and doesn’t think that I’m his “daughter”. </p>

<p>My grandma is on my mother’s side and so are all my mother’s family friends that keep on coming over and bothering me and telling me to just listen to my mother and go to UoP. It’s so annoying and I’m sick of it. All they do is come here and lecture me, as if I didn’t know what they were saying already. And now in the future, when they come over they’ll probably say “Isn’t this all for the better now, now that you’ve listened to your mom”. </p>

<p>My mother says I’m free to do whatever I want after I graduate in 6 years from UoP. So after 6 years, I’m definitely getting out of Stockton, maybe pursue a higher degree at a different school and go far away and do something I want to do. </p>

<p>Thank you to everyone. Really for being my support group if you call it throughout this stressful time period~</p>