<p>How a MIDN acts is up to the MIDN in question. We are exposed to a lot of situations that can be considered morally challenging. For instance I’ve been exposed to a lot of situations involving alcohol but i partake d in moderation and had a good time. Generally the MIDS do get introduced to “whore houses” since generally its tradition to get the Cadet laid, but again this is something that no one is going to force u to do. Its all up to ur son or daughter. As for church, on my ships i had sea partners that were generally religious like myself and we went to church when we were in various naval bases. ultimately the choices the MIDN makes is all his/her own. Just trust that u raised them right.</p>