<p>I’m going to have to agree with USMMA2009 on this one, unless the parents are or were sea going merchant mariners they do not know what sea is really like they just know from stories that are selected to be told to them. In the end its up to your son or daughter to do certain activities while in port. If they only leave the ship to go to church or if they go in every whorehouse in a port it shouldn’t matter because at the end of the day they are still your child and what they did overseas doesn’t change that.</p>