Cornell Alumni Interview...at McDonald's??

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<p>Whether she gets in or not, if she isn’t seriously interested in the possibility of attending it makes no difference, except to someone’s ego and it isn’t my ego. So reading about it then, either way, would be no “win” for me, it would be a loss to me, a waste of my time. I am here in the same helping spirit that the alumni interviewer does what he does, and in this instance I fear his time is being wasted as well. Perhaps that’s a false impression, but that’s the impression I’m left with via this thread.</p>

<p>Maybe they only take the seriously interested candidates to Starbucks.</p>

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<p><em>rim-shot</em></p>

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<p>Mdeziz-</p>

<p>I think you really need to grow up. It’s just a brief meeting, and the guy was probably not analyzing it as deeply as you seem to be. So what, that it’s at McDonald’s. Do you really think there is any greater virtue or “class” in Starbuck’s. Both are inexpensive, corporatized, public places. Does it make you feel bad to be in a McDonald’s because you think it’s beneath you?</p>

<p>When you get out in the real world someday, you will see that there are some very bright, accomplished, and yes - even rich people who are happy to eat at McDonald’s, drive cheap cars, wear off-brand shoes, etc. Their possessions and dining spots do not define them. I would suggest that such people are more evolved than you are, but you are young.</p>

<p>I would suggest that you readjust your attitude.</p>

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<p>monydad, i’m not the one making you waste your time commenting on this thread. And as for being in the “helping spirit” it would probably fit better if you werent throwing potshots with your advice. </p>

<p>if u wanted to appear more like a martyr perhaps u should abandon the ‘unworthy’ candidates, like me and instead, speak to those who will listen to your advice with reverence.</p>

<p>u think this thread is a waste. Why r u still here then? </p>

<p>What’s a rim shot?</p>

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<p>I will take your sage advice. Others may do as they wish.
Good luck.</p>

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<p>wtidad, i wasn’t overanalyzing it. I was just making a comment about how I thought it was unusual and then people exploded, thus making me defend what I said. </p>

<p>I’ve said that I like McDonald’s and eat there quite frequently myself. How does that make me think that McDonald’s is beneath me? </p>

<p>Darn, I was hoping that I was a caveman resurrected! </p>

<p>I acknowledge your suggestion. Thank you for your advice.</p>

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<p>Hey, mdezie, good luck with your interview, and let us know how it went!</p>

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<p>Yeah? How did the session go?</p>

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<p>the interview is early next week. Ill tell u all then, no worries. </p>

<p>4thfloor - thanks! </p>

<p>i was more under the impression that everyone wanted me to show what a total a** i am so I wouldn’t get in.</p>

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<p>^^^ I am a little surprised at some of the reactions here, and I certainly don’t want to dump on you too.</p>

<p>Cornell is a fine place, so again, best of luck, even if it may not be your first choice at the moment.</p>

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<p>I think mdeziz need a reality check.</p>

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<p>would u care to elaborate, sammy2? I have trouble believing your slight without a hint of evidence.</p>

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<p>There’s nothing wrong with needing a reality check. We all do from time to time. The more of these interviews you do, the more you’ll know what to expect. It’s no big deal.</p>

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<p>Let’s work on the defensiveness first. The reality check can come later.</p>

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<p>mdeziz, stop obviously trying to sound smart. it isnt working, and it wont work on your interview</p>

<p>good luck next week</p>

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<p>Mdeziz, after reading through this thread I feel that you are neither interested in the school nor excited about the interview. My suggestions are as follows,

  1. Withdraw application. Cornell lets you do that. Don’t know whether they will return the application fee though.
  2. Politely reschedule the interview. Maybe the interviewer might pick another spot.
  3. Ask school to reassign the interview with someone else. They might just do that.
  4. Cancel the interview. I don’t think it will impact your application in anyway unless you are borderline.</p>

<p>Why go through something that you are not crazy about? If the interviewer is experienced enough s/he will spot it during the interview leading to a lukewarm review anyway.</p>

<p>Just some genuine suggestions.</p>

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<p>oh and you should be thankful that you got an interview. not a lot of students do. they didnt even do interviews for the architecture majors this year…and those interviews have a LOT of impact in the application process</p>

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<p>Mdeziz, as an alumni interviewer, I would say that a fast food franchise or a Starbucks is a reasonable location if it is quiet enough for an engaging conversation. Certain branches may or may not be. I always try to schedule my interviews at a local high school or other neutral place. I try not to interview at my office in order to avoid any possible or perceived intimidation.</p>

<p>So as one sage member stated above, be thankful that you are in a position to be interviewed by an alumnus/ae. He or she is spending time out of a busy day to get to know you better. Good luck with your applications.</p>

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<p>Wow times are tough these days. Nonetheless, dress to impress. You’re being judged.</p>

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<p>If OP is not that interested in Cornell, why not use this opportunity as practice for future interviews? You might also learn a thing or two you didn’t know about Cornell.</p>