Cornell vs UVA (debt vs no debt)

$75,000 could end up being a crushing amount of debt. The parents will have to cosign, I believe , for that amount of debt. I would personally not do it, particularly when Virginia has such good instate options. But if the OP and his parents are willing to take on that kind of debt, that is up to them. Hopefully, what the parents were willing to do was discussed before the applications went out.