It makes sense that you are struggling. Our son is a freshman at boarding school. While one can’t be certain how one would respond, I can say that I would NOT have allowed to him enroll in his BS without a revisit whereas my husband and son say they absolutely would have been okay with it. While nothing can replicate/replace revisit days I think the advice on another thread of speaking to current families/students, reading the handbook, and looking at social media are all excellent ideas. Best of luck to you and your family and I’m sorry you are in this situation.