@CateCAParent I can get on board with not seeing it in person, but my husband is a hard no on that. He will not entertain a discussion of sending her to a school he hasn’t seen. A lot of it is that we don’t know anyone who has ever attended this school, it is very far away, in a state we aren’t familiar with. My husband was reluctant about boarding school in general, so it’s just too big a leap.