Crush on a guy

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<p>CrushOnYou: I love this thread. I want you to listen to a story of mine and learn a VALUABLE LESSON (this applies to other ppl too)</p>

<p>Ok, so I just graduated from high school. I’d say for half the year I had a little crush on the most suitable girl for me. She was sooo cute, most adorable face in the world, lovely body (slim and tall like me), smart, FUNNY, and really nice and friendly. At first I liked her only a little, but near the end I was MAADLY in love with her. I could never strike the courage to ask her. The last weeks of my senior year passed by too quickly for me. I told some of my friends and there was this one guy named Dom who also heard about me liking her. I had the best pickup line that used her last name. Dom told the girl, "Hey, [my name] has got somethin to say to you. I told her the pickup line but it had lost its charm. The last days passed by quickly and I tried to position myself to talk to her (she is hard to find) but everytime I was in a position to talk to her I wavered. That Dom guy I told you about kept harassing the girl saying “why dont you spend time with [my name]” 2 days before my senior year I told her, “I’m sorry about Dom” Talked to her some more and said “You are so pretty and are the cutest angel in the world.” (She was obviously a little freaked out b/c of that Dom guy harassing her about me.) The girl smiled and said thank you. On my last day of school, I was going to talk to her, but I didn’t for LOTS of reasons, namely my cowardice and also cause Dom screwed stuff up for me. The girl was my dream girl and she’s a JUNIOR :frowning: She may or may not decide to go to UCLA (probably not :frowning: </p>

<p>And so it was, I missed out ON MY DREAM GIRL WHO I WOULD HAVE LOVED TO DEATH. I WAS TOO LATE!!! NOW I’ll PROBABLY NEVER SEE HER AGAIN!! I AM SO SAD, like you have no idea.</p>

<p>the lessons you should learn:</p>

<p>**Its hard to get courage to talk to someone I agree, but you must do it! Prepare yourself! Plan ahead! Renact the lines and conversation 1000 times if you have to!!! **</p>

<p>Give yourself deadlines about certain goals (like talkin to the guy for the first time)…OTHERWISE TIME WILL PASS BY AND YOU WILL BE HEARTBROKEN LIKE ME!</p>

<p>I saw that you said you may not be good enough for him! NEVER THINK THAT! I thought that I wouldn’t be good enough for this girl (I DONT THINK HIGHLY OF MYSELF), but I saw a guy she went with to formal and then I realized she can’t be too picky! LOL…what sucks is that I think she did like me in the end</p>

<p>ALSO, dont tell anyone except for your closest friends! That one guy didn’t ruin everything for me, but he DID A LOT TO MESS THINGS UP!</p>

<p>GOOD LUCK, MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND MAY YOU NEVER HAVE TO DEAL WITH THE TERRIBLE END-RESULT I HAD!!!</p>

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<p>jesus christ youre so weird dude. your whole life is like one emotional trip.</p>

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<p>F-U-C-K Y-O-U zzzboy!! :)</p>

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<p>i think you had more problems than just this dom character after you said the line:</p>

<p>“You are so pretty and are the cutest angel in the world.” </p>

<p>who the hell says that? thats beyond creepy</p>

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<p>I think that’s a great story. I don’t know what you guys are talking about zzzboy and imrightuarewrong. That line is so cute :slight_smile: I would be so charmed if a boy said that to me !</p>

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<p>Aww areucool1234, thank you so much for sharing your story. This always happened to me in the past tho.
To me, knowing my crush’s name, and seeing his FB or myspace are already enough. I usually stopped there and it has always been that way because I think it’s weird if I start talking to them all of a sudden. I always waited for them to talk to me, and they never did so I never did.
But hey, this time we’ll see if it’s different from before =D</p>

<p>areucool1234 - don’t give up. there are plenty of cute and smart girls at UCLA :wink:
ps. and I’m not a stalker guys >_< it’s just facebook</p>

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<p>Crushonyou,</p>

<p><em>Let me say first that I did not read all the pages on this thread so I do not know what other have said to you</em>
I really think you should at least talk to the guy. There’s no reason to be shy. At a school as large as UCLA I hardly doubt that he or any other guy is going to walk up to you and strike a conversation unless you’re absolutely stunning and I’m not saying your not. There’s nothing to lose and at worst he’s just going to ignore you. Good luck.</p>

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<p>areucool1234, i think you need to realize that you might be confusing infatuation with love. the person might not have a personality that you’ll like or you might just not simply get along together. but i feel your pain as i’ve been crushed just as much or maybe even more than you have and many of my chances have slipped away. and its much tougher for a guy to get a girl than a girl to get a guy.</p>

<p>crushonyou, i applaud your effort and audacity to start a thread where everyone can find out who you are with a few clicks on some websites. also, i think you should just talk to the guy to see if you guys will get along. if you do, just don’t bring this thread up too much because its pretty awkward</p>

<p>just my advice, but most of my advice is awful.</p>

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<p>naw dawg your advice is great this s*** is awkward as f***</p>

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<p>thanks therealist: well the person actually DID have a personality (really funny and adventurous)…i hope i will get over it soon, but i dont think i will…dammit…lol</p>

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<p>areucool – you WILL get over it. BUT, it will all come streaming back at your 10, 20, and 30 year HS reunions. By then, even after the first 10 years, you (and she) will have grown into (or towards) who you are, and all of that HS shyness starts to fade away. Or has faded away. Maybe not at the 10th, but I can assure you, by the 20th, everyone just spills who they had a crush on in HS – and sometimes they’ve followed parallel paths in life, and just connect! Anyway, just keep this in the back of your mind for future reference.</p>

<p>To the OP – well, don’t you sound just like me 30 years ago, but then we didn’t have internet or facebook. We didn’t call it stalking, but I guess trying to be some place where you knew some guy or girl was at any given time was just that. It just didn’t have a name and wasn’t something you could get arrested for! I suspect 1/2 the UCLA population back then would have been done in! </p>

<p>I fell hard for a guy I saw across the room at the Treehouse (Ackerman) in '75. We never had a class together, but I saw him a lot. By senior year ('77), North Campus facility had opened and I’d always run into him there. I’d dated a number of guys from the English dept. while there, but this guy was always something special. I waited until a month before I graduated before getting up the nerve to meet him. Back then, NCF (don’t know what it’s called now) was always crowded around lunch time, so you were forced to ask strangers if you could sit down and join them. That’s what I did. I figured if he brushed me off or wasn’t interested, I’d only be deeply humiliated and embarrassed for one month. Well, it did work out. Turns out the reason I saw so much of him was because we were mutually stalking one another. We’ve been married 25 years.</p>

<p>Good luck!</p>

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<p>^aww best story ever!</p>

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<p>omg omg
UCLA77 - that story was too cute and romantic!!! =D</p>

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<p>LOL UCLA77 omgggg that story made my day. That’s way too cute!!</p>

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<p>You should write a movie script because it makes a good Spring season movie.</p>

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<p>haha wow i guess some people do have their true love story =]</p>

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<p>@ UCLA77: best story ever <3</p>

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<p>^ Agreed.</p>

<p>10 chars</p>

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<p>read the entire thing. all i have to say is:</p>

<p>wham bam… what the **** just happened?</p>

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<p>Thanks guys. I guess there is such a thing as soulmates! </p>

<p>It helped, I think, that we both had/still have a wide range of musical tastes and loved going to little clubs that had (then little known bands) like the Ramones, U2, X (there was even a club in Westwood Village back then that played live music on Gayley); it probably also helped that we had/have the same political views; and finally, it didn’t hurt that he was a total fox.</p>