We have reasons for not being able or willing to take on an extra $100,000 of parent PLUS loans for our youngest kid to attend college. And reasons for advising our kid to not take on $100k of student loans for her undergrad education.
The budget is $30k/year. Not $55k/yr. Maybe some families can swing that, but we’re not in that boat.
However, if one wanted to suggest some $55k/yr tuition+room+board colleges for a cybersecurity major (after merit awards), please include them here. Maybe it might help other folks who might stumble across this thread down the road! 
I’m including this additional personal detail below because it has now become relevant, since it’s been mentioned a couple of times now to increase our budget per year…
We already have 1 kid in college (a freshman this year). So for the 1st 2 yr that D26 is in college, we’ll have 2 to pay for. On top of that, thanks to the changes in how federal financial aid is calculated, nobody gets changes noted on their expected family contribution now if you have >1 kid in college. So it’s actually going to be $60k/yr for 2 yr in a row that we’ll be shelling out. And that is pretty painful for us.
My DH, growing up, didn’t have much money. Parents divorced and his father spent time in prison. He, his sibling, & his mom struggled a lot financially. He had to hustle in order to get through college. And for 16 of our older kid’s 18 years of life, we paid out a lot of $$ to help my MIL out with her living expenses…money that in an ideal world, we would have been setting aside to be able to afford $55k/yr for each kid’s college expenses.
The fact that we’re going to be able to swing $60k/yr while both of our kids are in college at the same time is, in my opinion, pretty stinking fantastic.
If we could NOT afford that, then we’d probably be having D26 go to community college and then transfer somewhere.
As it is, with all of her AP scores, there’s good odds that she could end up at a college where her AP scores will shave off a year’s worth of class. And then guess what? Maybe we could help her out with some of a year’s worth of grad school tuition.
Back to our regularly scheduled programming. 
On a side note - thank you to the person who mentioned Texas Tech. We’ll go take a look! Am also wondering if maybe UNLV has something in the cybersecurity realm. I can’t remember if they do or not. Will go spelunking on their website. 